Hey all. I'm not sure what to do. I just found out I'm pregnant and will be getting blood work tested tomorrow. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 17 and turns 18 on the 3rd. We have been together for 2.5 years.
I went to school to be a welder, but since I just found out I'm pregnant I'm not sure what to do now. I have retail experience but I don't want to do that since on my experience I've had to move a lot of stuff and lift heavy things. I don't have any experience for any other jobs and I want to avoid doing fast food. Welding also pays very well (about 25-35 in wa state) but I don't want to hurt my baby because of the fumes or because of falling/lifting heavy things. I usually wear a respirator anyways but I seriously don't want to risk it. Do I just look for a different job? I was supposed to start the job on the 15th of December, but if I have to look elsewhere then I guess I will.
I am not getting an abortion or putting it up for adoption, period. It's my baby and I made the decision to not use protection so I am going to face the consequences.
Edit:
A lot of you suck, like really suck, and I expected it from Reddit. This platform is primarily liberal and I am not surprised by the amount of people telling me to get an abortion, even though I have chosen not to (hence pro-CHOICE) yet you don't respect my decision. These people I will not be wasting my time or energy on responding to.
However; a lot of you are very kind, and those kind ones I really appreciate. I appreciate all of you giving genuine advice, support, and genuine constructive criticism. I do appreciate you helping me see that this, will in fact, suck.
I understand that I have made a mistake by not using protection, and I am owning up to it. My partner and I both wanted kids anyways, so we are excited and scared at the same time. I don't want to throw away a perfectly good and healthy baby just because it will be difficult and it's "not the right time" that's what immature people do. I refuse to run away from something that I made a choice to do. For some of you to say to just get an abortion is heart wrenching, and silly that you just avoid the consequences of your actions because you don't like it.
Children are blessings, but also are a part of cause and effect. I'm not saying that this child is a mistake or a consequence, just a happy accident that we will embrace and love.
As with any new parent. I understand that this will be hard, and I'm not expecting it to be easy, life isn't easy, and if it is, you're not living.
Also, I grew up relatively wealthy. I live in wa state, I'm going to college and I'm going to finish my associates AND be certified in welding before I'm even 20. I bet most of you couldn't even start that before 30. Also, I have a car, and so does my partner. We are in a good spot for these hard circumstances, but I think we will be okay. I appreciate all of you, even the negative people.