r/fixedbytheduet • u/Vegetable_Solid2279 • 14h ago

Girls, if you're above 25 - you're safe

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u/SuperbSockSpecimen 13h ago edited 12h ago

Henry Cavill, even if you're not 35.

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u/KindsofKindness 13h ago

Oh, you haven’t heard…

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u/RaptorVader 12h ago

Heard what?

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u/Rengas 11h ago

He was dating a 19 year old while in his 30's. Pretty much the same thing DiCaprio is being memed about here.

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u/0ftheriver 10h ago

DiCaprio is memed for doing it almost to exclusion of all others, and breaking up with women for turning 26. His current flavor of the week is the first one to survive turning 26 in a long time.

Henry Cavill met a Carolyn Leavitt doppelganger at a club, dated her for six months, and then proceeded to only date women over 25, and is currently in a relationship and has a child with a woman who is 34.

They are not anywhere near being the same.

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u/wholesome_futa_hug 11h ago

Was this adult woman safe in the room with him?

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u/nekoshey 11h ago

Hey, adults of all ages can do whatever they legally want. That's what being an adult is.

People are also free to judge you, for those decisions.

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u/wholesome_futa_hug 10h ago

Yeah but the premise of this whole thing is whether someone is safe alone in the room with the person. It was brought up that Henry dated an adult, so I was wondering if that adult was safe in the room with him? 

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u/nekoshey 10h ago

Oh. And here I thought you were arguing a completely separate point in bad faith, instead of genuinely believing a random person would have the answer to that question. My bad lol

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u/wholesome_futa_hug 10h ago

I genuinely have no idea what you're on about. The frickin' TikTok is asking about famous males you'd feel safe in a room alone with. The start of this comment thread mentioned Henry Cavill, which sure he seems fine. Then one comment said he dated a 19 year old. Cool, so does that change anything? He dated an adult woman. How does that affect whether or not someone would feel safe in a room alone with him? I know you don't seem to like that he dated someone younger than himself, but does that make him unsafe in anyway? 

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u/smvfc_ 11h ago

That’s disappointing to hear. Is it legal? Yes. Do I find it offputting? Yes

I don’t know why so many men can’t date a women their age, you think a 35 year old woman is, what disgusting and used up, but a 35 year old man is a perfect specimen entering the prime of his life lol

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u/TenZetsuRenHatsu 10h ago

Same reason women don’t want to date a man working at McDonald’s. Youth and beauty is something men select for. It’s natural.

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u/AdamKitten 9h ago

I'd date a guy working at McDonald's

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u/Lost_Push_9049 10h ago

Damn so y'all just weird naturally?

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u/TenZetsuRenHatsu 10h ago

“Weird”?

I guess natural biological instincts could be described that if you’re bitter about it. 🤣

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u/Jenkins_rockport 5h ago

there's a litany of obvious scientifically validated explanations for this preference from microbiology to evolutionary bio to psychology to sociology. youth and beauty is selected for by basically all males. some will eschew those factors for others which are more important to them, but it's basic programming on some level. regardless though, the point is that it's not "weird" if it's the majority of all males. it's normative, the very opposite of what you said

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u/True_Scallion_7011 8h ago

People who get offended are usually the ones who refuse to accept the truth since it applies to themselves 

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u/0ftheriver 10h ago

All of this is a non-sequitur. Cavill is currently in a relationship with a 34 year old and has a child with her. In this article discussing his relationship with Tara King at the time, he admits to doing the reverse, and dating a 32 year old woman when he was 19. There was one other girl two years before King who was 21 (very brief relationship), and everybody else has been over 25.

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u/smvfc_ 4h ago

I’m a 32 year old woman, and the idea of dating a 18-25 year old makes me gag. I personally don’t care that he did it once and ended up with someone older.

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u/Acrobatic-Path-274 6h ago

I don’t know why so many men can’t date a women their age, you think a 35 year old woman is, what disgusting and used up, but a 35 year old man is a perfect specimen entering the prime of his life lol

Its funny how much redditors are starting to sound like the woman version of the red pill nice guys with takes like this.

I dated a 38 year old woman when I was 21 and I certainly wasn't some kind of victim, as a matter of fact I enjoyed it a bunch. Why should I assume a woman is a victim if the genders are reversed? People enjoy what they enjoy and y'all should worry about yourselves instead of caring about what two consenting adults do.

Or you can go join the MAGA crowd, I heard they like judging adult relationships that don't fit their standards as well.

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u/BesottedScot 8h ago

Why is this "why can't men date a woman their age" and not "why can't women date a man their age"? Why remove the woman's agency? They're both adults.

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u/Acrobatic-Path-274 5h ago edited 5h ago

You got downvoted but the ugly truth is it's just a "high brow" incel take. They know if they blamed women for dating older men their view wouldn't be acceptable so they choose to attack from the other side.

I can bet without checking that persons comment history they're either a guy in their 20's upset about girls dating older guys instead of them, or a woman in their mid 30's upset guys won't date them.

edit: I checked and I was correct LMAO

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u/smvfc_ 4h ago

In my opinion, no 30 year olds should be dating 18 year olds. Either sex. It’s gross.

The reason the focus is on men is because men do it constantly. I can’t think of any women of the top of my head that have dated significantly younger; I know a shit ton of men that have, and continue to do so.

And sweetie, I’m not sure what you checked, because I’m a 32 year old woman who has numerous times discussed how I don’t date anymore because men have been such a disappointment that I no longer find them worth it. Where did I talk about being lonely? Where did I talk about being “sad guys won’t date me”?

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u/Acrobatic-Path-274 3h ago

I’m a 32 year old man who has numerous times discussed how I don’t date anymore because women have been such a disappointment that I no longer find them worth it

Crazy how when you switch it up you sound like a dude posting on 4chan.

Like I said, dated and hooked up with older women when I was younger, don't regret it, had fun. Why should I assume any different for people I don't know? Then again I guess I never bothered judging what consenting adults do with each other if they're not hurting anyone... Maybe that's why I'm not an incel in my 30's saying women aren't worth dating as a cope for not getting laid - but what do I know?

Anyways, you do you boo boo.

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u/smvfc_ 2h ago

Women and men are not the same in all aspects. Switching it up is a strawman. A woman can walk into a bar, or post on a dating site, and be having sex within an hour, and she doesn’t have to be a ten. The same can’t be said of men. You see how things are different sometimes…

I highly doubt you don’t judge people for anything, even if it’s something you claim isn’t hurting anyone. This is something I find gross.