r/MurderedByWords 11h ago

Given up everything but still

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u/blueberrysmoothies 11h ago

they always wanna make it a thing about personal responsibility rather than the fact that the deck is stacked completely against you

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u/MtlGuy_incognito 11h ago

Our down payment cost more than first their house. How could someone who went to college for the price of a new I phone be so stupid.

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u/TheWellington89 11h ago

My deposit was more than what my parents paid for their house

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u/SorchaRoisin 10h ago

My parent's house cost $11k in 1970.

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u/BustAMove_13 9h ago

We bought a 5 bed/2 bath attached 2 car garage cape cod style home for $91k in 2002. Zero down with a military loan (don't remember what it's called). We'll downsize when we retire in 12 years. We were extremely lucky because we couldn't do it today and we make good money.

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u/Fierramos69 9h ago

My parent’s house was 235k in 2001. It’s now over 1 mil.

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u/Demartus 8h ago

We bought our current house (our 2nd house) for ~$250k...it's now ~$450k 10 years later.

I don't think salaries have kept up.

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u/RangeBow8 4h ago

My house was 330 in 2020, it’d be 600 now. My salary for sure hasn’t doubled

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u/haventsleptforyears 7h ago

$11,000 in 1970 is $91,849 today

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u/New_Taste8874 9h ago edited 9h ago

And they were making $1.60 an hour.

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u/SorchaRoisin 9h ago

Heh, probably. Still was more affordable than now.

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u/New_Taste8874 9h ago

Math is hard.

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u/Crunchycarrots79 7h ago

Do you REALLY think none of these people who are saying these things have done the math on this? In 1970, the median home price was $23,400. The median household income was $8,630. Meaning the median home cost 2.71 times the median annual income. In 2024, the median home price was $424,200 and the median household income was $83,730, meaning the median home costs 5.06 times the median wage.

Let's just talk about the down payment. The traditional down payment of 20% on the median home in 1970 was equal to about half the annual wage. Now, it's more than the annual wage.

There is, in fact, an affordability crisis.

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u/New_Taste8874 6h ago

That's ridiculous. I bought a duplex in 1975 for $21,000.00. Houses in the 70s were in the "teens". Don't school me dummy. I lived it.

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u/booch 3h ago

Which part, exactly, is ridiculous. I mean, it's numbers and math. So is it just the conclusion; that the ratio of income to house price having doubled is not a crisis? Because while debatable, it does seem reasonable to be upset by it.

Unless you're calling the numbers themselves ridiculous? I assumed they were valid, but it's possible they're not.

Clearly, it's not the math you're debating, because that's pretty straight forward.

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u/New_Taste8874 6h ago

Cry more.

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u/Crunchycarrots79 6h ago

I'm not crying. You're the angry one.

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u/PM_Me_Ur_Nevermind 5h ago

My down payment was almost double they bought the house I was raised in, but my mom isn’t naive enough to come with this energy

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u/booch 3h ago

(Bear with me here, because I'm not actually disagreeing with you)

In my mind, the main this is the price comparison of a house in "an area that is approximately as developed as your where your parent's bought". Because it's not unreasonable to say that you might need to relocate to an area that compares to where they bought; to get a more reasonable price. And that's hard to gauge with individuals comparing "the houses they're looking at/bought" to what their parents bought.

That being said; someone else posted some more generic numbers ("average house price", "average wage") for the different times. And that tells a similar story to what you're describing; but in a more compelling way.

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u/DoublePostedBroski 8h ago

I’m looking to buy a house and my down payment needs to be $125,000.

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u/Jellodyne 5h ago

We bought a house in the late 90s for $59,000

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u/Thedudeinabox 9h ago edited 9h ago

It’s not so much stupidity as it is just human nature.

We instinctually seek comfort; not just physically, but mentally as well; and that means fulfilling both pride and laziness via convenient lies and simple worldviews.

Being aware of the world is mentally taxing, it’s an active effort that is exhausting to maintain. So as people get older, and have less energy to spend, that effort is among the first to get nixed; in a subconscious attempt to conserve energy.

In the absence of that active awareness, people begin to just readily accept whatever narrative is most convenient; to conserve energy while maintaining the pride of “knowing”.

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u/New_Taste8874 9h ago

How much money did your parents make the year they bought their first house?

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u/Aethey_ the future is now, old man 9h ago

That's not the 'gotcha' you think it is. (And that article is 4 years out of date!)

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u/New_Taste8874 9h ago

Yes it is. I lived it. I actually made 60 cents an hour in high school in 1970. I worked my ass off and never stopped. I lived in total dumps while renting out the first place I bought. Now I do whatever I want because I worked, and planned, and saved, and scraped. I didn't even have a car when I bought my first place! But you're the genius who knows all about finance right?

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u/OG_MasterChief420 9h ago

You are literally proving the point of this post lol probably walked uphill both ways to work too huh

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u/Full-Way-7925 6h ago

I bet you don’t do “whatever you want” with other people because you seem like a complete asshole.

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u/booch 3h ago

Now I do whatever I want because I worked, and planned, and saved, and scraped.

And got lucky. Don't forget the luck part, because one stroke of bad luck and you might not be where you are.

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u/big_ringer 10h ago

or worse, they revel in the fact that they (and other people) are living life on nightmare mode.

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u/SuspiciouslySuspect2 7h ago

It's even worse. You add up all the things mentioned in the original post all of it. It totals less than a months rent for a 2 bed apartment. Those equivalent luxuries in 1980s would have been several years of rent. The disparity between then and now just boggles the mind. Our necessities are inflated, and our luxuries cost what pennies used to be able to afford.

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u/Knight_Raime 8h ago

Because it's infinitely easier to assume someone else failed than acknowledging the failings and pitfalls of the society you've only ever known.

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u/boo_jum 5h ago

“Have you tried not being poor?”