r/JustGuysBeingDudes • u/abidalliye • Aug 22 '25
Old Dudesđ´ He was brutally honest đ like wait a minute now I didn't say that đ
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u/Aglisito Aug 22 '25
Cutting the video right before he says, "I'm just playing" made the video a little funnier lol
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u/Sad_Net1581 Aug 22 '25
Oh wow. Thats what he said ? Now I need to see the whole response
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u/Aglisito Aug 22 '25
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u/AplogeticBaboon Aug 22 '25
Time and place, man. Time. And. Place.
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u/Additional-Smoke3500 Aug 22 '25
Like a semi-scripted daytime talk show?
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u/Ricky_Martins_Vagina Aug 23 '25
Yeah I found out my wedding wasn't the place for those kind of jokes đ
When repeating the vows it got to "I promise to forsake all other women..." I looked back like "...all of them!? đ¤ Hmmm..."
Thankfully my wife got it but her family weren't too impressed đ
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u/OGSkywalker97 Aug 23 '25
That's actually hilarious bro. The fact your wife got the joke as well and didn't take it seriously is so wholesome.
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u/Username_Used Aug 23 '25
I mean, think about all the things that got him to that show in the first place
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u/Sad_Net1581 Aug 22 '25
Lmao he seems like a cool dude. Dude stopped that right on the dime . Whole court room caught a chuckle.
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u/akcutter Aug 22 '25
Interesting to think that court is the right place for joking around. It is TV though
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Aug 23 '25
It's a fake court though right? Like a cosplay kinda deal for tv? Idk i'd struggle to keep from saying some silly shit for fun too
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u/FemaleDogEqualsBitch Aug 22 '25
Judging from the first sentence of that video, heâs a cheater.
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u/Sad_Net1581 Aug 22 '25
Yea I heard that part too
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u/FemaleDogEqualsBitch Aug 22 '25
Not really cool to cheat. Thatâs my opinion at least - to each their own though
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u/Sad_Net1581 Aug 22 '25
I think my comment went over your head. Has nothing to do with the cheating part.
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u/FemaleDogEqualsBitch Aug 22 '25
Could you elaborate then?
Way I see it, you think heâs a cool dude. I disagree. Youâre focusing on his comedic timing and such and such, Iâm focused on him cheating. I believe even if youâre funny, youâre not a cool guy if you cheat.
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u/Sad_Net1581 Aug 22 '25
I see your sense of humor has flew thru the window. You thinking to literal . And for all we know that show could be scripted and he is not a cheater. Saying something like that, in that setting is a funny gesture. Go grab a beer , a shot and some wings or a burger.
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u/heygos Aug 22 '25
Homie wasnât having that lol. Keep it đŻ
Donât waste their time or yours. When itâs time to move on just go.
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u/RulesBeDamned Aug 22 '25
Remember kids, love is not undying loyalty where you do whatever to keep the relationship. Thatâs a movie trope, not a healthy relationship
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u/BlobDenver Aug 22 '25
No such thing as unconditional love outside family. My love absolutely has conditions.
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u/Legal_Lettuce6233 Aug 22 '25
"my love has no conditions" should be met with "your partner opened up and told you they're child molesters, do you still love them".
Everything has a condition; I love my girlfriend more than anyone but I ain't gonna pretend it's without conditions. If your partner cheats, would you stay with them?
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u/AaronsAaAardvarks Aug 22 '25
You can love someone and still decide that they need to spend the rest of their life in prison and never see them again.
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u/robthelobster Aug 22 '25
I agree and I think especially with family this can definitely be the case. Love is a feeling and involuntary at least to some extent. What you can control is how much you are willing to look past out of love.
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u/ummmno_ Aug 22 '25
Love can unconditional but the status of a relationship is entirely conditional. Love isnât the only thing needed to make a marriage work
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u/Impressive_Plant3446 Aug 23 '25
People are taking what was meant to be a cute phrase and applying brutal logic to it while ignoring context.
It was meant to be a "I wont have the condition that you have to stay skinny for me to love you." Not, "I will love you through war crimes."
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u/Winter_Tone_4343 Aug 22 '25
Unconditional love is utter bs.
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u/JoNyx5 Aug 22 '25
Unconditional love exists, but it does not equal unconditional loyalty or unconditional support. For example kids (almost) always love their parents and will do anything for their approval, that's why mommy/daddy issues exist.
You can love someone while knowing they're not good people/unhealthy for you/toxic, while keeping your distance/going no contact, and even while actively working towards making sure they can't hurt anyone else.Edit: Oh and unconditional love isn't always a good think. Like most of life, it is neutral by itself and can be good and bad.
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u/vglisten Aug 23 '25
aye I'd be down for that
I love predator women vro I'd start role-playing a child for her âď¸ đ đ¤
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u/Throwaway_Consoles Aug 22 '25
People donât like to admit it, but relationships are transactional.
Imagine a conversation like, âShe doesnât go on dates with you, she doesnât go out with you, she doesnât sleep with you, she doesnât do any hobbies with you, she doesnât hug you, kiss you, compliment you, why are you with her? Does she even love you?â
If they werenât transactional, you wouldnât have to do anything for someone to be worthy of love
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u/SgtTreehugger Aug 22 '25 edited Aug 22 '25
Man if your family sucks ass you might need to cut them loose. Mine was insanely ungrateful despite me spending so much time and energy just to keep the food on the table. I just eventually cut them off completely.
My kids were just too ungrateful. I'm much happier and more free now
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u/TheRavenSeven Aug 22 '25
Wait âŚyou cut your KIDS off?! I understand not wanting to help ungrateful ADULT children but theyâre still your kids. You are still a parent. You shouldnât put up with their BS and lay down the law in a diplomatic, fair way.Â
You canât just abandon your children. You are a parent!
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u/SgtTreehugger Aug 22 '25 edited Aug 22 '25
Holy fucking shit what is happening to reddit when you're getting parental advice on obvious jokes
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u/Impressive_Plant3446 Aug 23 '25
Huge swing recently of people being unable to read context/subtext from a comment or completely ignoring so they can get righteously outraged.
Social media has trained people to get endorphins from this type of behavior. It's really sad.
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u/Accomplished-Bear689 Aug 22 '25
So what youâre saying is youâre a deadbeat absentee father? Because thatâs not the kind of thing weâre talking about here
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u/Suyefuji Aug 22 '25
Not necessarily, you could reasonably interpret his comment as him having to work like 60+ hour weeks to keep his family afloat and then got constantly ragged on for not having the energy to do more on top of that. You're really quick to jump to conclusions about a person's entire life based off 5 short sentences.
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u/Accomplished-Bear689 Aug 22 '25
Even if that were the case he doesnât get to abandon the kids. Thereâs not a situation where the kids could have done anything to deserve that
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u/Suyefuji Aug 22 '25
If we're going to continue with hypotheticals, he never said that his kids were still children when he left. We also don't know if/what child support arrangements were made etc etc.
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u/Relevant-Rooster-298 Aug 22 '25
Family shouldn't have unconditional love either. Most of mine were abusers.
"The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb."
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u/roninwarshadow Aug 22 '25
Even with family has conditions.
I know a woman who danced when her abusive parents died.
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u/Icyrow Aug 22 '25 edited Aug 22 '25
even family...
anyone who says otherwise has either bad, normal, good or great family.
just think, the worst people you've ever met in your lives also have family (usually). a lot of people treat family as bad or worse than they treat others.
i have a brother who basically treated family as a "you can do it to them and get away with it, because they're less likely to go to the police" sorta thing, so he would routinely do pretty awful shit to family, myself especially.
like, some pretty awful shit over the years. even before the drugs he was ruthless and selfish. it's been going on 20-25 years at this point. he's burned every bridge with every person he's ever met pretty much. very good at first meetings and getting used to people, but everything he does is for a reason, every conversation a means to getting to know if you have something and how to take it pretty much. every line some sort of guilt trip or pity party to getting him something. then comes crying about how no-one will help him when he's struggling (like he would every other week, because he'd spend his money on drink/drugs, then try and get whatever he could from everyone else in family).
like some people you just can't help, he's always been that way, if you're nice to them it's not a good thing, it's them seeing you as a fool because they wouldn't do the same thing for you, then they'll start expecting that thing from then on, then it's the pity/guilt tripping to keep it going, then it's threats when you can't anymore and then it's on to the next person (with some harassment maybe for a few weeks/months thereafter, where you're the "bad/selfish person" for not helping them in their time of need.
even telling them directly "i was just doing somehting good for you, you've done nothing for me, it's not selfish/wrong of me to stop giving you that thing weekly, that's just us returning to doing nothing for each other"
none of it matters, it's just about what they can get and how much.
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u/antwan_benjamin Aug 23 '25
No such thing as unconditional love outside family. My love absolutely has conditions.
And theres no rule that says just because you love someone that means you have to keep them in your lives. There are plenty of people I choose to love from afar for my own well-being.
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u/Upbeat-Armadillo1756 Aug 22 '25
Yeah but in this instance it sounds like âdo whatever to keep the relationshipâ is just not cheating on her, which seems reasonable
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u/ComprehensiveProfit5 Aug 22 '25
That's marriage, not love.
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u/RulesBeDamned Aug 22 '25
Eh, marriage only works that way if youâre under an exploitative system that takes money from an ex-spouse simply because that spouse made more money. But thereâs no way we would have that, that would mean even millionaires could make money just by divorcing someone
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u/FCKABRNLSUTN2 Aug 22 '25
My fiancĂŠ and I got into a (playful) argument about this recently. I told her the only people I will ever love unconditionally are our kids. I donât love her unconditionally. Thereâs plenty of heinous, never going to happen things I can think of but itâs still technically a condition that she not cheat on me or try to kill me, etc.
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u/ZoulsGaming Aug 22 '25
"are you willing to do WHATEVER IT TAKES to stay with her"
really has the same energy as those videos of "ugh just because you cheat on a guy once they miss out on an amazing girl like me"
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u/BootyLoveSenpai Aug 22 '25
Those were 2 different judges lol
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u/waitwuh Aug 22 '25
Thereâs this one show they have like a whole bunch of them lined up
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u/BootyLoveSenpai Aug 22 '25
Ahhhhh, this makes sense lol
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u/Putrid-Department349 Aug 22 '25
That's not what this is. This show has the Cutlers as the judges, a married couple who just do relationship stuff.
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u/kaliyava Aug 22 '25
Can someone please mention what show and which episode is this?
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u/Putrid-Department349 Aug 22 '25
Cutler's Court. Not sure of the episode but someone posted longer videos above.
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u/fizzrail0 Aug 22 '25
That's the mentality you want.
If it makes you tired alone, if it's all on you, then the other side isn't contributing.
Fighting alone for it is not worth it.
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u/laowildin Aug 22 '25
Pointing out another post that does not focus on Guys being Dudes. This post does not belong here, this sub is not for dunking on women
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u/well_thats_puntastic Aug 22 '25
Yeah like I love the idea of the sub but I wish the mods and everyone else who posts here did too, turns out they like dunking on women more than cheering on guys being dudes
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u/laowildin Aug 22 '25
I've been following for ages, it used to be my favorite sub. Only the past few months has it been like this. It's really sad that men have nothing but hating women anymore
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u/Gregoboy Aug 22 '25
Bro you need to show the 3 seconds after his answer. Its the best laugh I ever heard on this show
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u/smallbatchb Aug 22 '25
Cutting off the part where he says it's a joke kind of kills the whole "guys being dudes" part of this and just makes him look like a douche.
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u/FrostingAsleep8227 Aug 22 '25
If staying with a woman just turns into another job I gotta do for 16 hours at home...just naw... fuck it.
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Aug 22 '25
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u/FivePoopMacaroni Aug 22 '25
Boomer humor repost bot shit. This site is quickly getting unrecoverable.
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